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::.My marriage is important to me but I'm afraid it's falling apart...
You've reached midlife and have determined your spouse plays an integral role in your life. You want to stay married but you feel that your marriage needs some improvement--you fear it will disintegrate without some positive changes. This fear can cause major emotional difficulties and arguments with your spouse. Have courage: careful communication will help you calm this tense situation.
The Solution
- Communicate: Take action. Tell your spouse what you think.
- Try counseling: Propose to your spouse that you go for joint counseling. If your spouse declines, ask to revisit this proposal in two weeks. In the meantime, promise yourself that you will stay calm and neutral with your spouse in the days ahead. As long as you keep communicating, you can work to improve your relationship.
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